Widowhood and dating
When I told one of my girlfriends about my new sex life, she said, "Good for you for getting back on the horse!" Another friend said something I took to heart: that as women, we can claim our pleasure without shame, that our sexuality is a gift to be proud of.I was tired of having experiences for their own sake.Within a week I'd stopped dating anyone but my boyfriend. My reawakening since my husband died really surprised me.
However, keep your eyes open to potential problems before giving too much of your heart to him.He’s probably worried that they’ll think he’s moving on too fast or, perhaps, won’t be open to the idea of seeing him with someone else.He might also be concerned that this new relationship will cause friction with other family and friends who are still mourning.Hair color, body type, or similar interests are just a few things that might make him notice you.If you look, act, think, or have other similarities to the late wife, be very concerned – particularly if the widower’s wife is recently deceased.