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Many misconstrue this notion as a sex for favors arrangement.
Men who seek this type of relationship do not do so purely as a sexual outlet and would be offended if a woman offered sex for kindness and not because she was attracted to him physically. Fidelity is less of a risk in this relationship because the man is older and has sewn most of his wild oats years earlier.
He is less likely to be interested in a superficial encounter. The prospects of a long term relationship are usually very real, his playing around days are obliterated in the past.
His mature mindset now focused on the many other aspects and indeed the benefits of being in an adoring long term union. The older man/younger woman relationship often focuses on a mans need to protect and show support towards his younger partner.